My Nagging Wife

I am married 28 years with my nagging wife. Yeah, its true & I am enjoying it for as long as she is faithful. Nothing that you can think of that she could do for me to divorce her except for the reason of unfaithfulness. Why? God told me so….

But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. Matthew 5:32

I do wanna causeth her to commit adultery. I don't want to be that Man whom the offense cometh….

Woe unto the world because of offenses! for it must needs be that offenses come; but woe to that man by whom the offense cometh! Matthew 18:7

But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea. Matthew 18:6

I can endure it because of a promise by GOD Himself:

And ye shall be hated of all men for my name's sake: but he that endureth to the end shall be saved. Matthew 10:22

What if I am saved?

But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him. I Corinthians 2:9

So Folks, before you divorce your wife, read this again…again…& again

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Getting Married - Transport

From a Stretch Limousine to a classic Rolls-Royce, from a horse-drawn carriage to a London taxi, today's services can definitely get you to the church on time for your wedding in whatever style suits you. More than 75% of all couples employ hired transportation for their weddings, and the elegant white limousine is the conveyance of choice 85% of the time.

Besides being safe and comfortable, a special wedding-day conveyance is, to most couples, the ultimate luxury. Those with formality and elegance in mind will choose the traditional white, silver, or black limousines. Often, couples will even hire one or two additional vehicles for their bridal parties and their parents, so that all VIPs will arrive and depart in style and safety.

Wedding transportation is not a necessity, but it is an affordable luxury that alleviates some of your worry over getting everyone everywhere on schedule, especially with your wedding-day jitters. You'll want to be sure that you deal with an established, reputable company, and that you inquire about more than price when comparing various services.

You should definitely shop around and not just go with the first you company you see because you love one of their cars. Unfortunately, there are flimflams in this business, so you have to be sure of the reputation of the company you're dealing with. Car switches and unethical payment policies are among the most common complaints lodged against limousine operations.

To avoid wedding-day disappointment, take a look at the following guidelines:

Get word-of-mouth recommendations from people/businesses you know who have used a service before.

Set up a face-to-face meeting with the owner/manager of the company.

Verify the insurance protection and the qualifications of drivers.

Be sure that the company is licensed by the appropriate licensing authorities, both state and municipal; this is especially important if the vehicles will be crossing state or county lines during your wedding service.

Check to see if the company is a member of the National Limousine Association; this is some indication of reliability and service standards.

Know what the liquor laws are in your area and do not expect any exceptions for your wedding. For instance, in many areas, the use of alcoholic beverages is prohibited in vehicles, and that includes champagne!

During peak wedding/prom/party seasons, the demand for transportation, especially for exotic vehicles, can easily surpass the supply, so you will want to start interviewing companies far enough in advance to allow for adequate choice and comparisons (three to four months should suffice). Be wary of companies who rely solely on phone answering machines, or who do not respond promptly to your initial inquiry. This could indicate poor reliability. Discuss your plans in general terms over the phone, and then make an appointment for a personal visit with those companies who seem able to meet your needs.

Finally, in the interest of romance, do not share your limousine ride from the ceremony to the reception with anyone else. These few minutes together are likely to be the only ones the two of you will have alone all day, and they are the first few minutes of your married life. Savor them, and keep them private

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Build Sexual Stamina – Train Yourself to Last Longer in The Sack

Learn how to train yourself to last longer in bed. If you are here, there is a good chance you have had at least one of those "whoops" type situations where you just got a little ahead of yourself (not to mention herself). Guess what? There is no need to feel embarrassed about that again AND you are not alone. Roughly three out of four men have or have had to deal with the issue of premature ejaculation.

There are ways remedy this sitiuation. And guess what? Pills are not the way to go about fixing this issue. The best way to cure premature ejaculation is to train yourself to last longer. Anyone can accomplish this and you can do it in the privacy of your own home, office, car, etc.

Think about it like this. Let's say you were going to run a marathon in four months and you'd never even come close to running 26+ miles non-stop. The most you've ran is 4-5 miles per session. How would you train? Would you:

A. A magic potion/lotion and popping some pills?

B. Or, would you train yourself physically by slowly working up to 10, 15, or 20 or so miles?

If you'd just simply take pills, you'll end up failing. You'd OBVIOUSLY TRAIN YOURSELF PHYSICALLY, right?

It's exactly the same with putting a stop to being the "early bird" in bed. When it comes to passion in bed, the "early bird" DOES NOT get the worm.

There is never a right time for being the "early bird" either. Think about how it is the first time you're with a new woman. You are extra exited, right? This makes it that much tougher to hang on. You don't want the first time to be over in no time flat.

And if you're married? You don't want the love of your life to think of you as the "minute man". Think about how much women talk. And they DO TALK. They're not much different than us guys, except they seem to yap way more than us guys do.

Keep in mind, you CAN TRAIN yourself to last longer in bed AND there are some excellent e-books available to help. The good thing about getting an e-e-book to help with this training is that it is absolutely INCONSPICUOUS. That's right, you order, download, and learn. Nothing is dropped off by UPS or your mail carrier. You don't have to go into a store and pay the cute little female cashier for your "early bird" training manual. It's just you and your pc

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Hawaii Honeymoon: Getting More Bang For Your Travel Buck

Whether you're getting married in Hawaii or just planning your honeymoon there, you definitely want to speak with some of the locals about the activities there. They will give you a different perspective about things to do and where to stay. You can also plan a wedding and honeymoon in Hawaii and have some of your wedding vendors help you with your honeymoon plans.

No matter your wedding plans, Hawaiian honeymoons will melt away the stress of your wedding and give you the chance to relax on the beach with your favorite drink, sink your toes in the sand, and cuddle with your new spouse. The perfect getaway awaits you on the sandy beaches of Hawaii.

This is outside of the fact that Hawaii is native to many different kinds of tropical flowers, adding to the perfume of the air that comes so naturally. There is little to compare to the fragrance of tropical Hawaiian flowers in the air while snuggling with a loved one on the beach.

Make sure you pick the right island for you Hawaiian honeymoon so you see the side of Hawaii that you've always wanted. Do your research ahead of time and then talk with your local travel specialist so you can have the perfect honeymoon in Hawaii.

Choosing the right honeymoon vacation in Hawaii is really simple once you know what to expect when you get there. If you want to relax in peace an quiet, try any island other than Oahu. If you want all the things you've seen on tv about Hawaii, then go to Oahu and you won't be disappointed.

The great part of going to Hawaii on your honeymoon instead of the Caribbean is that you don't need to leave the country and deal with passports and customs but you get the same great weather and fun. In fact, I've been to both and I prefer Hawaii myself.

When you take your perfect Hawaiian honeymoon, make sure that you have access to ample transportation as there is a lot to do. Renting a car is the most economical and reliable way to go, as you have the freedom to stop and see all of the sights that you are so interested in. Waterfalls, flower gardens, beaches, luaus, fine dining-Hawaii has it all; it is just a matter of you being able to find it.

You can find all the information for the ideal honeymoon vacation to Hawaii online and once you do you'll have a hard time deciding what you can and cannot do depending on how much time you'll be on vacation. Bring romance into your new life together with sunset walks on the beach in Hawaii for your honeymoon

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Sex, Lies and Secrets: Is Secrecy Destroying Your Marriage?

After the story broke that New York governor Eliot Spitzer was having sex with prostitutes, relationship experts popped up on every news channel, dispensing theories about Mr. Spitzer's behavior. Opinions about why a married man (and one with a great deal to lose) would behave this way ranged from him having unmet needs to sociopathic tendencies. One expert even suggested that "men are ruled by their genitals." In all the analyses of this scandal, though, what no one brought up was the role of secrets.

The truth is we're never going to know why the ex-governor did what he did. But the reality is that Mr. and Mrs. Spitzer are not alone in having to deal with the devastating effects of an extra-marital affair. It is estimated that 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will be unfaithful at some point in their marriage.

In my therapy practice I've worked with both men and women who were unfaithful, and many who were on the verge of starting an affair. There are many reasons why someone makes the decision to cheat on their spouse or partner--one often overlooked dynamic has to do with the power and lure of living in a secretive world.

The Power of Secrets

Some people are drawn to the idea of keeping secrets. Whether the secret involves an extra-marital affair, gambling, shopping, or alcohol/drugs, keeping a secret seems to hold a special meaning for the secret-holder, beyond the content of what is kept hidden. For obvious reasons, secrets spell big trouble for your marriage or relationship.

True intimacy cannot exist when you build walls of secrecy around each other.

Let's look at five reasons you might keep secrets from your partner (or vice versa):

1. The Secret as an escape

Here the secret acts as an escape hatch from a mundane or distressing reality that you feel little control over. People who feel trapped in painful marriages are vulnerable to creating a secret life that promises relief from the heartache of a deteriorating relationship. For some, the secret might involve emotional infidelity; others might have a physical affair. The secretive relationship can exist for many years alongside one's marriage or the affair can act as catalyst to leaving an unwanted relationship.

2. The Secret as a source of energy

The function of this type of secret is similar to escapism but the emphasis is on the charged energy you feel when you enter into the secretive world. The secret is seen as offering a much-needed adrenaline boost to a lackluster life. One client who had a gambling addiction (that was kept hidden from his family) described how his secretive life made him feel "alive" in ways that eluded him in his day-to- day life. People who remain overly repressed and constrained in their relationships (and in general) are prone to this type of secret.

3. The Secret as affirmation of your disowned self

Typically, people behave differently in their secretive world: The individual who feels stepped-on in his life seeks omnipotence; the high powered executive who bullied his/her way to the top becomes helplessly submissive; the dutiful, and highly ethical husband is transformed into the bad, punishable child. When deep- seated fears of rejection and shame block you from bringing all of yourself into your marriage or relationship, secrets become a powerful way to express these disowned (polar-opposite) parts of yourself.

4. The Secret as an avoidance of intimacy

For many, emotional intimacy is the life energy that makes them feel alive and whole; but for others, a deep connection to another becomes a strait jacket to be avoided--fear of intimacy is a reality for many couples. When you struggle with fears of intimacy, you struggle to maintain your autonomy, while also attempting to give of yourself emotionally. This is a balancing act that does not come easy. When intimacy is being avoided, the creation of a secretive life acts as a possession, a line drawn in the sand that delineates you from your partner or spouse.

5. The Secret as a means of control/power

In a sense, all secrets give you a greater sense of control. At lease initially. This usually changes at some point, as your secretive life spirals out of control--which is often the case when you try to hold onto secrets while being in an intimate relationship. But for some, their secrets are designed to act as a means of power over their spouse--a way of controlling something, anything, that their partner cannot have access to. The importance of this secret is that you gain a sense of control over your partner by maintaining a secretive existence.

The need to keep secrets originates out of an early need to protect yourself. When a relationship (or some aspect of a relationship) becomes intolerable to a child, s/he begins to retreat, hiding within the protective world of secrets. A child who has been emotionally injured learns to count on the reliability and safety of secrets.

The challenge for all of us is to create a relationship that feels safe, a union that allows a deep and rich sharing of ourselves. When our hard work and commitment pays off in the form of a mutual haven of intimacy and respect, the heavy curtain of secrecy will lift, allowing a true connection to flourish

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The Budget Bride ideas for favors and decorations

So you are trying to come up with cute but elegant ideas to decorate the church and your reception but your money is limited. Here is a cute and simple way to make the ribbon rose. With the ribbon rose you will be able to use this rose for your church and reception hall. To start you will need a wide ribbon that is 1 and ? inches wide and has wire made in it . The first step is that you will need to make a knot at one end of the twenty two inch ribbon. At the opposite end, you will need to poke out wire from one side. Loosely gather ribbon along this wire down to knot. Do not pull to hard as it could snap. Continue gathering until the entire side completely is ruffled and curling naturally. Now leave the wire end free and do not cut it off. Step two is to form a rose by holding the knotted end in one hand and begin to spiral the gathered ribbon around the knot loosely with the other hand. Wrap tightly at first to form a rose bud then continue wrapping lightly so that it flares out and acquires an open rose effect. The third step is at the end of the ribbon, fold the raw edge down to meet the gathered edge . Next you will need to secure it by wrapping some wire around the knot tightly and catching the free end and cutting the end off. Now adjust the petals to create a desired rose effect. The last step is to form the leaf. Now for the leaf you need a strip of ribbon that is 1 ? inches wide with wire in it . Now fold each end diagonally and center it . Next fold each side towards the center again forming a point and gather the bottom end and wrap with wire to secure .What is nice about the ribbon rose is that you will be able to use the colors that you want for your wedding when you make them .

Now for a simple but elegant favor idea. Try to give your guests at the reception little wedding bells made out of soap . The materials that you will need will be the soap, and molds that have wedding bells shaped in them. You can get soap from your local craft store or order online . First melt the soap in the microwave for 20 seconds per square or use the melt and pour soap packets from the craft store. Next once your soap is melted pour into the mold. Now make sure that you pour these only half way and let it set for 1 minute. Now add same tiny items of your choice into the soap before it has cooled down. Then fill the rest of your mold with the melted soap pouring over your items. Your little items can be bell charms . Now let the soap set and then pop them out of the mold. Next put them in tiny gift boxes to give to your guest as your favors. Now here is where you can use your imagination by using some soap coloring to add your favorite color to the soap

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An Introduction to Vera Wang Wedding Invitations

It's only fitting that designer Vera Wang produces a line of wedding invitations that break the mold with elegance and style. After all, her career as a famous designer was inspired by her unsuccessful search for a wedding dress. Wang, seeking the ideal wedding dress for a sophisticated, adult bride, was dismayed to find that nearly everything she looked at had a "sameness" to it, and that they all seemed to be designed for "younger brides". It took a few years, but Wang took that disappointment in finding the right wedding dress and turned it into a bridal design company.

Vera Wang's wedding invitation designs carry through the same bold, elegant and innovative eye that she brought to fashion design. The invitations range from classically elegant to whimsical and buoyant, but they all represent Wang's unmistakable flair for the striking and the dramatic.

Vera Wang's Wedding Collection features wedding invitations in several different lines. Each line is distinct and distinctive, although some designs do cross over to carry on a design trend. For instance, the floral and frond designs reappear in several different styles of wedding invitation, presented in note cards and fold-over styles as well as in standard card styles. Borders and pattern prints are repeated in envelope liners and in dual-sided wedding invitations that are exclusive to the Vera Wang collection.

Vera Wang Letterpress Wedding Invitation Collection

This unique collection features bold, fashion-forward prints on oyster paper. The prints include floral and paisley in borders and repeats, and in single, splashy designs along the sides or peeking in from the top corner. You will find bright, pattern-on-pattern lace designs alongside delicate screen prints, delicate screen print floral patterns juxtaposed with bold sunbursts. The colors run the gamut from subtle jade green to bold and bright orange, sparking every piece of the wedding invitation ensemble in different, unexpected ways. A real favorite for the modern, unconventional but very elegant bride: the Vera Lace Letterpress Wedding Invitations which feature a delightfully stylized floral pattern against a delicate lace border and makes use of the unconventional and bold color combination of turquoise and jade.

Vera Wang Retro Verso Wedding Invitation Collection

This collection takes a skipping step to the whimsical side of your nature. The Retro Verso wedding invitation collection features bright, cheerful colors in prints that dance across the page. Each invitation is dual-printed with your invitation wording and a border design on one side and a bright pattern on the reverse of the paper. Retro Verso wedding invitations are unmistakably elegant, but have a playful unconventionality that's appealing to the modern bride. A favorite wedding invitation style from the Retro Verso Dual Sided wedding invitation collection: the Parasol Dual Sided Wedding Invitation, which features sunshiny bright colors and a pattern reminiscent of your childhood Spirograph. It's bold, flirty and definitely fun.

Bordered Wedding Invitations from the Vera Wang collection

This collection features bold colors and classic styling for the traditional bride with a strong unconventional streak. Colored borders in different styles frame the center panel on each invitation, but each of the borders has its own unmistakable character. Coupled with boldly patterned envelopes, the wedding invitations are both elegant and strikingly unique, a great deal like Vera Wang's bridal dress designs. The two main designs in the Vera Wang Borders collection are the Bar Panel Border and the Hand Tinted Border wedding invitations. The Bar Panel borders are elegant and classy, featuring a triple frame in bold colors and an embossed double border around an Oyster white print panel. The invitations are coupled with very stylish envelopes with linings inspired by Wang's own designs. The Hand Tinted borders are more subtle but no less striking, with borders hand tinted in bold, bright colors. There are no frilly details, just an elegant, classy and bold style statement.

Nearly all of the invitations in the Vera Wang collections include beautiful hand-lined envelopes to match the colors of the wedding invitation. The colored linings of the envelopes for the Retro Verso collection, for instance, echo design elements from the wedding invitations themselves, a sunburst parasol for the Parasol wedding invitation or a single gingko fan with the Ginkgo Retro Verso invitation. The Borders Collection invitations are coupled with envelopes lined in bold floral and geometric prints that coordinate with the double-colored borders.

The Vera Wang wedding invitation collections are bold, inspired by the textile prints and color palette from Vera Wang's "Ready to Wear" collection. Unconventional and bold, these are wedding invitations designed for the discerning bride with an eye for fashion and style. If you are looking for wedding invitations that match your penchant for modern insouciance, the Wang wedding invitation collection is definitely worth a second look

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Romantic Gifts For Her Speak the Language of Love

Among the many ways a man can show a woman how much he cares are those which are in harmony with how we communicate with those who are close to us. These include offerings of romantic gifts, touching, companionship, actions, and positive statements.

For many women, gifts are the best way for a man to say "I love you", especially when special care has been taken to make the gifts as personal as possible. The extra attention that is given in selecting and preparing a gift for a loved one enhances its value far beyond its actual cost.

Women, in particular, will signal in subtle ways the need for their loved one to re-affirm their interest and affections and gift-giving is an obvious and unmistakable way of showing that you care. Naturally, men need to be alert to the hints that women send and be willing to act on them.

Don't make the mistake of believing that gift-giving is only for special occasions. Romantic gifts are often spontaneous and show that you are thinking of and about her and what it takes to please her. They love to know they were in your thoughts. A bouquet of roses, a butterfly pendant, or a fragrance that she loves - when unexpected - will stir the passions of the calmest woman.

Of course, on those occasions when gifts are normally expected - birthdays, anniversaries, Christmas, and the like - a generic gift can undermine a close relationship as it suggests that you don't care enough to put some thought and time into making your selection. This is an occasion when there are few excuses as you have been clearly forewarned.

Beyond the joy which comes from a surprise gift, is the awareness and appreciation felt when it is clear the gift is an expression of love and not just an automatic gesture or a duty you were bound to perform. For instance, it is common to give red roses to a loved one but those flowers are a far more romantic gift when you go to the trouble of selecting them in her favorite color. One small step in time can be a leap in terms of affection.

Each woman has her own language of love that she uses to communicate with those close to her. These are her own preferred ways of giving and receiving; of exchanging feelings. Listen and look for the signs which indicate what that "language" is for her and how you can use it to show you love her. Romantic gifts often have a sensitive part to play in this. If you are alert, you'll soon learn the conversation of love

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Catering For Your Wedding

Dealing with catering service providers is part of most brides wedding planning strategy. A caterer normally provides food and beverages and they have an important role in your wedding. If you have experience with caterers, you are in luck. But if you have never hired a caterer before, don't worry.

If the wedding reception venue offers this service, it is also possible that you don't need to worry about hiring a third party caterer. Even if catering is not provided by the reception venue, they may be able to recommend some to you. If your reception site manager, recommends a caterer you should still do your homework. Just like any other vendor, a caterer should be able to provide you with several references. You should always contact the references.

You should ask about reliability, trustworthiness, quality, and related issues. Never assume that a caterer recommended by someone if surely the best possible solution for your event. One caterer may work great for one event, but be insufficient for others. A caterer may be experienced in smaller events, but not experienced with events with two hundred invited guests.

There are two different styles of catering:

Seated Dinner - Seated dinner setting will normally require more staff than a buffet. Serving the food requires more severs. With a seated dinner, you will need more tables and chairs because most of the guests will eat at the same time. A seated dinner offers less flexibility for your guests, because they usually have a couple of options to choose from. To simplify the process, menu options should be included with the wedding invitations so your guests can choose which selection they prefer. The pre-selection process enables you to work with your caterer on the final count.

Buffet – You may be able to get away with less chairs and tables with a buffet dinner. Buffet gives your guests more flexibility, and they don't all have to eat at the same time. A buffet dinner also gives your guests more options to customize their food selection. The buffet requires fewer servers and less staff. Guests can pick and choose what they like. In addition to the obvious advantage of a more flexible dinner, your guest can go back for seconds. Because buffet dinners require minimal service staff, you may be able to save more with this option

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